Wedding Advice Pt2
Ok, so you’ve decided on a budget, you’ve got a venue and you’ve finally learned the fine art of delegation - lets move on to the details.
Personalize your big day by picking a colour theme.
Even if you don’t have the budget to go all out you can make an impact with something small like a colourful red sash for your chair covers. Just having a bright splash of colour can really pull everything together and something like a sash is relatively inexpensive and easy to do. Flowers can make a big impact too - if you don’t have your heart set on a specific bloom ask your florist what kind of flowers are currently in season; going with an in season bloom will help keep your cost down.
A big misconception is that everything needs to match. Not all of your vases and candle holders need to match nor do they need to be expensive. Mixing and matching adds an eclectic look and leaves room for you to pick up one-off sale items. Accent pieces are always nice but sometimes less is more. Sure you could have a 5 tiered chandelier over every other table and candelabras all over the place but I find extreme decor seems to overwhelm the room and you want the focus to be on the bride and groom, not on the lighting. Pick just one stand out item to feature, such as a chandelier, and keep the rest of the décor to a minimum. Just having some small tea candles strewn about the room and a few flowers here and there adds a touch of romance without blowing your budget.
Feeding your guests
Next comes the menu. Ask your food services provider if they can come up with a menu that has a little bit of everything in it and that way everyone can have a choice and you don’t have to plan a thing! This option works best if you’re having a small wedding like I did and it definitely adds a more personal touch as often you’ll be able to get the bride and grooms name written at the top and that always makes for a good keepsake. If you’re having a larger wedding crowd then a buffet might be the best option for you. That way you can have a few different dishes and everyone leaves satisfied. If you’re providing the booze just stick with domestic everything. People will drink it if it’s free so don’t feel like you have to spend and arm and a leg just so someone can have a beer from Denmark. To ease the cost even further you could brew up a batch of sangria and make up a few big punch bowls of the stuff which is always a crowd pleaser. I went to a friends wedding last year and one of the best parts was the homemade sangria - I don’t think anyone there was drinking anything else and it won rave reviews from all of the guests. In fact that could be a great idea for a small memorable gift for everyone. Print off your favorite recipe (could be for that amazing sangria) and attach a little chocolate or something to it and there’s a perfect party favor for everyone that you can leave by their plate. It’s the small touches that really pull everything together.
Get ready to smile…for hours.
Start practicing your pose and smile now because you will need it on your big day. These photos will be your reminder of one of the most special days in your life and you want to look your best in all of them. Start looking at other wedding pictures and start collecting clippings of the style or composition you like. If you have ideas of the types of pictures you want it will be a lot easier to convey your wishes to the photographer if you have some examples. Finally, practice your beautiful smile. You will be smiling ALOT. For HOURS. For some people it’s an awkward task so start practicing at home so you get comfortable and can turn it on at a moments notice. Sure, at the time all of this will seem tedious and all you’ll want to do is just sit down but trust me you’ll be happy you suffered through the hours of poses because when you see your wedding album for the first time you’ll get why it was all worth it.



Depending on the season we could have trucks lining up at the back door all day for months on end! Spring and summer are our busiest seasons, especially when it comes to special events and tenting. Some days I get so swamped that by the time I look at the clock it’s almost time to go home. I swear, for the first six months of working here the beeping sound of a truck backing up would haunt me. I heard that sound EVERYWHERE, even when I was at home half asleep on the couch. However, like with anything, you get used to it. I’ve gotten used to my nails looking nasty, wearing steel toed shoes, popping up a 10×10 pop up tent in under a minute and a half and singeing my hair (just a little) when testing the 72” BBQ. All in all it’s a really great place to work. I’ve seen what’s really involved in making TV commercials, heard all kinds of crazy stories from movie sets, and seen some of the most beautiful weddings.


